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In this latest installment, we delve even deeper... If you missed the first installment, find them here
5. YOU’RE PLAYING A DANGEROUS GAME…
… by overly
“chuking” mouth in that other person’s relationship. There’s an extent to which
it is allowed that you get involved in someone else’s relationship. There’s a
line you shouldn’t cross. Every, I repeat, every single important decision to
be made in a relationship must be made by the individuals involved. Do not
suggest for them, except if for instance, there’s proof of physical
violence/abuse. Even at that, I’d tell you once or twice, and if you don’t
listen, you’re totally OYO afterwards.
We’re
humans and where we can get away it, we love to practice that blame culture. It wasn’t me that did it. It was already cracked. Blah. Trust me,
if you help (or feel that you’re helping) someone by suggesting to that person
that they leave a relationship because he/she (I’d prefer “they”, but not many
people get English these days, just ask Freeze and Kaylah on CoolFm) has given
you reasons why they should, well, take care that it doesn’t come back to bite
you in the ass. That blame culture will ensure that